Mom completely reorganizes 20-year-old’s space when she’s away for the day, she returns dismayed: ‘I explicitly told her I hate people moving my things’

What would you do if someone moved all of your stuff? 

If you’re particular about your stuff, you have a right to want things the way you want them. We all have a method to our madness, no matter how mad it may seem to someone else. You might be a messy or disorganized person, but as long as that’s not harming anyone else, you have the right to proceed as such. Especially in your own space. We’re creatures of habit. We like things the way we like them. We like knowing exactly where to reach for our deodorant in the morning, and if it’s suddenly in a new spot, it might throw the whole day off. We simplify certain things in life by sticking to a routine. There’s nothing wrong with this, even if it doesn’t make sense to someone else.